2021

 My 2021 was mostly about self assessment and rebuilding a *newer self* brick by brick. One of the lessons that found it's way to my head was that it's one thing seeing a situation as an outsider and another actually being in it. So I should be *less judgemental* and *more understanding*. Now that I am saying it doesn't mean I was very understanding towards others but I tried. Secondly, one doesn't have to understand everything about others. Just *give space*. Let the other person breathe! What if you think you're not getting space? Well, that's still to be figured out! I learned that we should not reciprocate behaviours and attitudes. Life needs *patience*. It's definitely too short to hate or fight or plot. Else, don't worry. You will figure out along the way. Please accept the fact that just like loved ones, haters are also inevitable. They are part of your journey. Be the bigger guy and embrace life. And acknowledging the existence of those who literally can't behold the sight of you is also a part of embracing life. How to deal with them, that's for you to figure out. But I learned to choose to be nice and keep a safe distance. 


Can't thank God enough to have blessed me with a great life partner who has stood by me not only through by best, but also through my worst. He made my 2021 brighter!!

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